Wednesday 20 February 2013

I’m frustrated because my wife hides her body from me


“When I wedded my wife almost thirty years ago, she was a shy, sweet little thing and I loved her for being that way. To me, it was an outward proof of her innocence. But after a few years, I started to wonder if there was more to her demeanor.

Can you believe that till now, my wife refuses to get naked in front of me? She locks the bathroom door when she’s using the restroom area and she refuses to properly dress in front of me, opting to cover her body with a large cloth while she shrugs into her clothes – that is on the days she doesn’t dress in the bathroom and away from my prying eyes. It’s quite frustrating and many times, I quietly complain to her but till today, she’s yet to agree to be open with me.

When we’re intimate, she makes sure the lights are off and always stays under me. Then once we’re done, she quickly covers herself. I hear other men talk about the pleasures of watching their wives get dressed in front of them but look at me – I’ve never had that pleasurable luxury.

My issue now is that I’m in my sixties and time is going fast. How much longer do I have my virility? I want to enjoy my wife and I believe it’s better late than never but she frustrates all my efforts. A few weeks ago, I decided to do something about this problem while I still have something to gain from it so I sought the advice of a marriage counselor. All their efforts to get her to open up failed and I’m still where I am. Apparently, a hundred percent intimacy with my wife is never going to happen for me. I’m sad about it but I’ve resigned myself to my fate. Every marriage has their problems and this is one of mine."

10 comments:

Anonymous said...

Are u for real ? I don't believe such is possible !!

Anonymous said...

My brother take heart, some women are like that. At least she still gives you sex.

Anonymous said...

This is like a story i was told in my pre-marriage class by my counsellor. Honestly, i felt the lady was making it up. This is unfair to the man in every way. Something must be wrong somewhere cos this aint normal

Old celibate said...

What the hell are you doing still longing to look at fifty to sixty something years old female body? And its causing you distress. Are you alright?

Anonymous said...

Omg....old celibate. Na wa for u i! Lwkmd!

Anonymous said...

dude na wa for u...free d woman abeg but if u still want to see d whole body i advise you play a teenage prank or her....like on d light during sex and throw away d duvet and bare everything open but that might be d last time u will b getting some

Anonymous said...

i support the last comment. oga, its your fault you've not seen this woman properly naked since. decide way forward now, either you fling away the cloth or duvet when you're in the act and catch her unawares or you remove the bathroom lock and rush in when she's taking a bath. anyhow you decide, do something. haba. soon it will be too late o!

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